Lukas Gage Shades Ex Chris Appleton Over Dueling Memoirs
LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - NOVEMBER 15: Lukas Gage attends the FX's "Fargo" Year 5 premiere at Nya Studios on November 15, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. Source: (Photo by Rodin Eckenroth/Getty Images)

Lukas Gage Shades Ex Chris Appleton Over Dueling Memoirs

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Lukas Gage offered a measured but pointed reaction to ex-husband Chris Appleton’s newly announced self-help memoir, noting that he “didn’t know about it” and feels “honored” to be so “influential” given the timing—Appleton’s book is slated to arrive three months after Gage’s own forthcoming release.

Gage’s remarks came during an on-camera exchange outside DOGPOUND Gym in West Hollywood, where he was asked about Appleton’s announcement and whether he thought the timing was intentional. Gage added that the timing was “coincidental,” a line he delivered with a light touch that observers interpreted as shade without escalating tensions.

According to the outlet’s reporting and video segment, Gage’s book, titled “I Wrote This For Attention,” is scheduled for release in October, while Appleton’s “Your Roots Don’t Define You” is set for January—placing the two memoirs on a staggered timeline that nevertheless invites comparison among fans and media.

TMZ also reported, citing unnamed sources, that Gage and members of his team are unhappy with the timing of Appleton’s release; this claim has not been independently confirmed by the parties and should be treated cautiously.

The former couple’s relationship moved quickly from public debut to marriage in April 2023 and a divorce filing in November 2023. The divorce was finalized in June 2024, concluding a brief but widely covered union that drew attention across entertainment and LGBTQ+ media.

In recent days, Appleton has discussed the emotional aftermath of the split in an interview on the “On Purpose” podcast hosted by Jay Shetty, describing how heartbreak can coexist with meaningful connection and personal growth. Coverage of Appleton’s remarks emphasized his message that a relationship can matter deeply even if it does not last forever.

Gayety also reported on Appleton’s reflections, noting that he framed the short, high-profile marriage as part of a broader life arc, rather than a mistake—an approach consistent with the therapeutic and reflective tone suggested by his forthcoming memoir’s positioning as self-help.

It remains to be seen whether either book will delve into the marriage in significant detail or address the public fascination with the pair’s whirlwind timeline. Gage declined to say whether he expects to be name-checked in Appleton’s memoir, and neither has previewed extensive content. For now, the public record consists primarily of the titles, release windows, Gage’s on-camera remarks, and Appleton’s recent reflections about moving forward after the divorce.

As both projects near their respective launch windows, LGBTQ+ readers and fans are likely to examine how each figure frames love, loss, and self-construction. The books’ staggered timing could encourage comparative reading, but their distinct formats—personal essays versus self-help—suggest different aims: one centered on voice and persona, the other on reflection and guidance. Absent further disclosures, any speculation about potential overlap remains premature.


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